Sep 1st, 2010 | by Sarah Jean Duggan
Poor sex education in our school system, some would say a ripple effect from the laid back sexual attitude of yesteryear, has lead to generations of problems. Anyone out there remember ‘the Summer of free love’? Well, now someone’s having to pay.
Even at the age of 11 at school, as I sat in a draughty room full of my peers, watching our middle aged, red-faced (half sweat/half embarrassment) male form tutor desperately trying to secure a condom onto an un-ripened banana, I was thinking how pathetic the lack of decent sex education in our country is, and how it could be so much better, so much less clinical. I even asked (once he’d given up and told us they have directions on the packet if you want to know how to do it) why we weren’t being taught about relationships and the emotional side of sex, and how to protect ourselves, not just how to have safe sex?
His answer? You can’t teach that.
Brook, the sexual health charity, thankfully has a different approach to such things. Whilst the NHS make ads and run services that treat the symptoms of a lack of sex education, Brook is focusing on fixing the root of the problem. So not only do they treat, counsel and provide free contraception to under 25’s, they also offer advice. Advice that’s confidential, accessible, that helps young people know their rights and understand their bodies. Advice that helps young people to deal with the issues they face positively, rather than feeling like they’re alone. Advice that ultimately puts young people in control of their sex lives.
So in March, when Baber Smith was given the opportunity to pitch for business from Brook, we jumped at the chance. And when we found out we’d won, and that pitch-winning siren wailed, we were over the moon.
Some of the conversations we’ve had and sentences that have been floating around BS Towers since then are things I never thought I’d hear on any job. Having to ask our designers questions such as “can you make that banana look a little bit more like a penis?” and sitting straight-faced in boardrooms opposite our bosses discussing the usage of ‘boobs’ versus ‘breasts’ is enough to make anyone blush.
But where others may have blushed, our “a spade’s a spade” matter-of-fact stance on the subject matter put us in good stead to get the job done.
The new campaign is about the attitude you take towards sex and relationships. Too long has our country dismissed the subject of sex as a dirty secret that we all share but nobody talks about, too many a parent has cringed and said “I’ll tell you when you’re older”. The taboo stops here.
Yeah, there are lots of big issues for young people to face, and they might feel embarrassing, scary, confusing or otherwise – but they don’t have to be a big deal. Simply communicating openly and getting the facts (not the myths) is enough to boost sexual confidence, and set our younger generation on the path to happy, healthy sex lives.
Check out the campaign content at www.brook.org.uk to see what it’s all about!
Sarah_Jean Duggan, Copywriter on a mission



